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Tuesday, November 29, 2016

Rosh Hashanah Day 1: Afterlife in Jewish tradition

Rabbi Philip Weintraub
Congregation Agudas Israel
Rosh Hashanah Day 1
October 3, 2016

If I were to drop dead right now, at this very moment, what happens to me?  Does my soul separate from my body?  Do I hang around as a ghost to tell the next rabbi what to do?  What happens next?  Once it was confirmed that I was unsalvageable, after any useable organs were donated--then we can discuss the rest!  Let me be clear--organ donation is not only acceptable in Jewish law, but strongly encouraged!  What greater mitzvah is there besides saving a life?

In conversations with many of you, we have discussed the briefest of outlines of the Jewish views on the afterlife.  I am careful to say Jewish views, because the Jewish view has evolved, has changed from the Bible to the Talmud to medieval rabbis to the present.  Yet even among individuals, our answers may change over time. At some point in all of our lives, we ask these questions.  For many Jews, we are told by our rabbis and our parents, don’t think about that!  Focus on this life!  How can we possibly answer definitively? Has anyone really ever died and come back to life!?  

While I’ve read dozens of stories about angels and stories of past lives in the Jewish tradition, the skeptical side of my brain makes me think of the Jewish Museum and Ehrich Weisz. A few years back, the Jewish Museum in NY had an exhibit on him, the son of a rabbi, born in Hungary and raised in Wisconsin.  While you might not have heard of Ehrich, Houdini is a household name.  That nice Jewish magician fought against the fraudulent spiritualists of his day, who would swindle people out of their money through “communicating” with the dead.  For years, Houdini offered $10,000, which was even more money in his day than ours, to anyone who would prove something outside the laws of nature--and he never spent that money!

Yet many of us have had moments and all of us know someone who has had moments where they felt or heard or saw something that could not be explained, something that felt like a message, a reminder, a little bit of love from beyond.  Maybe you were in the hospital and saw a vision of a loved one.  What does our tradition have to say about these messages? What does our Torah say about life after death?  We might even have heard one of the many Hasidic stories, of rebbes past, sharing stories of messages from beyond!

Within the Bible, generally speaking, death usually seems to be the end.  Other than Enoch and Elijah, we hear of the death of almost every named biblical figure.  We hear of burials and mourning, but we do not hear of what happens next.  Saul communicates with Samuel (illegally) and Samuel seems pretty annoyed to be called back to Earth from Sheol--the underworld--which seems neither positive nor negative.  Over and over again the Psalms beg God to keep us living, since we cannot praise God in death!  Angels and seraphim and other heavenly bodies and heavenly courts are mentioned--but they seem to be something different--not us in the afterlife.  Ezekiel’s image of the dry bones being resurrected seems to demonstrate God’s power, but does not claim this fate for us all.  To the Torah, to the Bible, death is real, tragic and seemingly final.  We are one in body and soul, and without the body, the Bible does not speak of what happens to the soul.

At the same time, there are hints from which later commentaries expand their worldviews.  It is only the book of Daniel which is slightly more explicit in speaking of life after death.  Daniel, while not the last book in the printed Tanach/Hebrew Bible, is the latest book chronologically.  There we find words of resurrection, of return, of new possibilities.
יג  וְאַתָּה, לֵךְ לַקֵּץ; וְתָנוּחַ וְתַעֲמֹד לְגֹרָלְךָ, לְקֵץ הַיָּמִין.  {ש}
13 But go thou thy way till the end be; and thou shalt rest, and shalt stand up to thy lot, at the end of the days.' {P}
Daniel is promised resurrection!

Many years later, in the the Mishnah, Pirkei Avot 4:16/17 we read:
רַבִּי יַעֲקֹב אוֹמֵר, הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה דּוֹמֶה לִפְרוֹזְדוֹר בִּפְנֵי הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא. הַתְקֵן עַצְמְךָ בַפְּרוֹזְדוֹר, כְּדֵי שֶׁתִּכָּנֵס לַטְּרַקְלִין:
Rabbi Yaakov says: This world is like a hallway before the world to come. Fix yourself in the hallway so you may enter the drawing room.
הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, יָפָה שָׁעָה אַחַת בִּתְשׁוּבָה וּמַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, מִכָּל חַיֵּי הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא. וְיָפָה שָׁעָה אַחַת שֶׁל קוֹרַת רוּחַ בָּעוֹלָם הַבָּא, מִכָּל חַיֵּי הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה:
He would say: One hour of repentance and good deeds in this world is better than all the time in the world to come. And one hour of pleasure in the world to come is better than all the time in this world.

So by the time of the Mishnah and the Talmud, death no longer seems like the end.  The Mishnah there introduces the idea that there is a world to come and it is a wonderful place, but it doesn’t really describe it!  Even as it speaks highly of the next world, it also encourages us to celebrate THIS life--especially the aspects of self-reflection and improving this life, telling us that repentance NOW is far more effective than repentance later!
The rabbis have many stories in the Talmud about the next world and who gets a ticket.  In some ways they are far more generous to gentiles than to Jews--we are encouraged to follow the 613 mitzvot, while they have only 7!  They avoid discussing much about what happens there, but rather what is required to enter!  In Ta’anit 22A (p.127 in Koren), we read two stories of people who Elijah says to Rabbi Beroka will enter the world to come--a Jew and prison guard who disguises himself as a non-Jew to hear any governmental decrees against Jews--and then tells the rabbis about them so that they may pray and find a solution to repeal them.  The second two are jesters/comedians, who cheer up the depressed or make peace between two individuals.
Talmud Brachot 17a offers prayers that this life become like the world to come, informing us in the next life we will sit and study Torah with the Holy One, Godself!  Talmud Shabbat and Brachot 57b says that the peace of Shabbat is 1/60th of the peace and joy of the world to come--but then so too are seeing the sun and using the restroom when you need to!  In some ways, the central Jewish statement on the world to come is from Berachot 34b: “Rabbi Hiyya bar Abba said in the name of Rabbi Yochanan: All of the prophets only prophesied with regards to the days of the Messiah.  However, with regard to the World-to-Come, ‘No eye has seen it, God, aside from You.’”

The rabbis thus see redemption as a two stage process--first there will be a Messianic age, with improved peace and tranquility THEN there will be a final judgement with the world to come.

Talmud Shabbat 31a describes a heavenly tribunal, offering that before entrance to the World to Come, we are asked six questions:
Did you do business with honesty and integrity?
Did you fix set times for studying Torah?
Did you participate in the commandment to be fruitful and multiply? Did you anxiously anticipate the redemption?
Did you engage in the pursuit of wisdom?
Did you have fear of Heaven?
Each and every one of these questions represents a probing not just of our accomplishments, but of our overall character.
Again, we see instruction on how to prepare ourselves--how do we live our lives NOW, but not on what life will be like in the next world!  Over and over, the Talmudic rabbis reference the next life, speaking of the world to come, without giving us intimate details!  Perhaps they fear that if we truly understood, it would be too much for us!  
There are also multiple parables of the interrelation between body and soul, leading towards a judgement that is dependent on both body and soul.  The rabbis imagined that since our mitzvahs were built on our relationship between body and soul, so too were our sins.  How could God judge our soul for the sins of our body or our body for the mitzvot performed with our soul--only together could judgement come!

The medieval  and later Hasidic rabbis had fewer qualms about describing the world to come.  Philosophical treatises, disputations with Christians,  and rabbinic writings reference the world to come in more detail.  The details of final judgements of the relationship between body and soul and resurrection are discussed.  For more details, join me on Tuesday November 15 to learn more about all of these sources!

Maimonides wrote extensively about the afterlife, seeing it as a paradise for scholars, and the intellectual class.  Since the world to come was a way for the intellect to commune and study with the Holy One, the more one studied in this life the better off they would be in the next.  Of course, for Maimonides, deep Torah knowledge included all the knowledge and wisdom of the universe, so he demanded study of biology, medicine, physics, art, and literature--as well as Torah!  Yet his vision of a non-body  focused afterlife enraged his contemporaries.  He was forced to write a paper imagining the afterlife as death, resurrection, death again and finally the unification of only the soul/intellect with God!

Generations later the chasidic master, Rabbi Haim of Romshisok offers a beautiful parable, which is shared in many different cultures and traditions.  Asked about the difference between heaven and hell, he speaks of a long banquet table, filled with amazing food.  Yet in hell, the people are starving.  You see they have no elbows and no way to properly get their food to their mouths.  (Why don’t they just lean over and eat like animals?? It’s a story!)  He then tells his students of heaven, same table, same food, same lack of elbows, yet there the people are full. They use those same utensils to feed each other.  He continues, as it is there, so it is here.  That those who help others in this life will be helped in the next life!

Also in the last few hundred years are numerous texts on the process of atonement in the afterlife, how death and the suffering that might surround death help to atone for the sins of this life.  Medieval books with titles like “Tractate of the Pangs of the Grave” became popular, detailing what punishments happen before souls reach the highest heavens.  Since hell was never a major part of Jewish theology, Gehonnim evolves as a type of purgatory, where we can atone for our sins, be absolved, and enter Olam Haba (the world to come) or Gan Eden (the Garden of Eden).
This emulates the text from Pirkei Avot--that we must repent in this life to be prepared for the next!  Honestly, if we didn’t have death, we would have to invent it!  Death is central to life.  Knowing we will die is essential to living a meaningful life.  While for some it is terrifying, it can really be exhilarating.  How often have we heard “Carpe Diem” or “Seize the day, there is no guarantee of tomorrow” or “live today like it’s your last.”  Again, if we spend all our energy in that space, we will not make our long term goals, but it sure helps with the short term ones.
So now that I have shared the history of Jewish thought, I would like to share some of my own thoughts.  After much consideration, prayer, and time with Rabbi Neil Gillman’s the Death of Death and Simcha Raphael’s Jewish Views of the Afterlife, the following is what seems most true to me.  It is a multi-step process and view of the afterlife.
  1. We die.
  2. Our soul separates from our body (during shiva).
  3. We spend time in Gehenna purifying our soul from sin.
  4. We find ourselves in Gan Eden/Olam Haba. (As our loved ones say Kaddish for a year).
  5. By our yarhzeit, we are close to God. (Is this the end or do we start the process again--I cannot tell you!)

I do not stand here to tell you that my way is the only way, yet I firmly believe in Olam Ha-Ba, the World to Come.  I believe that I will find the ones I love again.  I believe I will be held accountable for the poor choices I made and find blessing for the better ones.  I believe with perfect faith that if my body is truly part of my soul, then God will restore it to its best health, and be glad that I donated any useable organs.

Yet central to what I believe is that LIVING a Jewish life, living a fulfilled life is the central mission of Judaism.  We are here to be a part of God, Torah and Israel.  Showing up today, whether this is it for the year or we see you every week is part of your destiny.  It is part of what makes you you.  I hope you will join me for many more conversations of what a fulfilled and meaningful Jewish life looks like.  That way, when we see each other in the next life, in Olam Ha-Ba, I pray that we will remember these moments fondly, that serving God, living in Jewish community, offering our prayers inspired us to live meaningful Jewish lives.


Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Elul day 4--Can I be joyful today?

Today is the 4th day of Elul.  In less than a month it will be Rosh Hashnah.  We blow shofar now to wake us up and remind us of the imminence of the Holy Day, but what about the most holy of days--the one that is NOW?
What if we recognized the holiness of TODAY?
 
What is special about today in your life?  
What are you thankful for?  
Who have you helped today?  
Who have you asked forgiveness from today?  
For whom have you prayed for healing today?  
With whom have you given or received a hug?


THIS is the day that God has made, let us celebrate and rejoice in it - “Zeh hayom asah Adonai, nagilah v'nismecha vo”


Right now I stand on the precipice with a loved one in surgery.  As I pray for healing, I look forward to hearing good news this evening, but where can I find joy RIGHT NOW?  


It’s time to relieve the babysitter and spend the afternoon with my almost four year old daughter after her first day back at school.  Today and everyday, I hope I am as grateful for the time to share with her!  Love to all.

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

The countdown has begun

Rosh Hashanah arrives this coming Sunday night. Full schedule here: http://www.congregationagudasisrael.org/


As we enter these days of reflection, I formally ask your forgiveness for these rabbinic "sins":

  • Did I forget to return a call or email?
  • Was I less friendly during Elul?
  • Did I ask more of you than you can give?
  • Did I say yes to something I should have said no, too or vice versa?
  • Was my answer too long-winded or too brief?
  • Did I speak to much or too little on Shabbat?
  • Did I neglect my family and friends?
  • Did I respond to every text, but not to every smile?
I'm sure there are others!  

As we ask one another for forgiveness, let us strive to improve ourselves every year.

Life is not a circle or a cycle, it is a spiral.  Each year we are in the same physical plane, but in a different temporal one.  Even if it is once again Rosh Hashanah, it does not make it last year again. We get to try again for the future, but not for the past.  Let us raise ourselves higher and holier each year.  Join with me!  Find the space for forgiveness of others and of yourself.



Thursday, August 28, 2014

Letter to the Public Editor of the NYTimes

When I was a teenager, I convinced my parents to get a daily subscription to the New York Times.  For the last fifteen years, I have been a daily reader and subscriber.  (I also do not know many other thirty-somethings who read a physical daily newspaper.)  As the paper of record, the New York Times has an obligation to fair-minded, honest and carefully accurate, yet timely coverage of local and world events.  Locally, I was impressed at you expose of the Pine Bush School System, which sparked change state-wide and got our local rag to finally focus on the anti-Semitism there.

Recently, I have been dismayed at your coverage of the Gaza conflict.  I was disappointed to see, day after day, photographs of carnage in Gaza, yet virtually no photographs of the terrorists, Hamas, who instigated the conflict with thousands upon thousands of rockets for the last dozen years.  When I heard the explanation that in the thousands of photographs the paper received from its photographers, it had only a couple blurry photos, I was disappointed in the Pulitzer-winning photographers who kowtowed to Hamas.  

I understand journalists and photographers need to protect their own lives, but they should not distort the truth in the process.  I was also very disappointed that there were so few photographs of the destruction from the rockets, exposes on the psychological horror of having to leave your home or needing a safe room to protect from a rain of rockets.  I was pleased to see your analysis of the casualty counts, recognizing that the numbers were horrifically inaccurate initially, but wish that that expose had been on the cover, rather than so far inside.

Even if I were to set aside the biased coverage from the last few weeks, today took the cake.  Online the article was quickly re-titled to, "In Israel’s South, Families Worry About the Future of Life Near Gaza", but in the paper, it read "In Israel's South, Families Worry About the Future of Settlements Near Gaza."  Maybe I am a little sensitive, but when the New York Times says "settlements", I hear illegal/unauthorized outposts in Judea/Samaria/the Occupied Territories.  While it may be technically correct, the shade one hears is that ANY land in Israel, is now contested.  

Does the New York Times subscribe to the theory of Hamas?  Is all of Israel occupied territory?  Will the editorial board now support a Juden-rein Middle East?  

I appreciate that the article was re-titled online, but I think a correction would be helpful--as would a clarification on civilian casualties.  Exactly how many Israeli deaths would be necessary for a military fight NOT to be disproportionate?  How many Jewish children need to die?  50? 100? 400?  How about in Iraq?  As the American military protects the Yazidi and bombs ISIS, how many American soldiers need to die for that bombing to be disproportionate?  Why the double standard on Israel and Jews?

Wishing you luck in your continued quest for "balanced coverage".  I do hope you will try to stick to the facts in the future.  Just because Hamas says 1+1=5, does not make it so.

http://mobile.nytimes.com/2014/08/28/world/middleeast/in-israels-south-families-worry-about-the-future-of-life-near-gaza.html?referrer

Friday, August 9, 2013

Elul Day 3--a Bar Mitzvah Video goes Viral and many cringe (but should they?)

Around the web this week have been discussions of Bar Mitzvah videos.

See this link for an example:
http://www.tabletmag.com/scroll/140726/the-evolution-of-the-bar-mitzvah-dance-video

Many looking at this video see it as over the top.  They complain of the money wasted on it, the seemingly outrageous idea of hiring professional dancers in skimpy outfit, and the lack of Jewish content.  I guess they didn't see the pre-Bar Mitzvah video--the second video on the page.  That one included friends and family, kippot, studying? his parsha, and perhaps his rabbi (or at least some shots in the shul--with the family's name on the donation wall).

As we enter Elul, it is appropriate for us to consider the words that come out of our mouths, the thoughts we choose to share with others in line, online, or anywhere.  Whether we speak, type, sign or otherwise communicate, what we share with others is a reflection of our values.  If we choose to berate 13 year olds and their values publicly, what does that say about us?

There is a classic story of an individual who comes to the rabbi after sharing a rumor about someone.  The rabbi says the person should empty a feather pillow on top of a mountain on a windy day and then come back to the rabbi's office the following day.  The next day the individual returns and the rabbis says go back to the mountain and collect all of the feathers.  The individual says that is impossible!  They have been dispersed throughout the village.  The rabbi says--yes that is the danger of speaking.  Our words can spread farther than we ever imagined.

Today that is more true than ever.  One blog can be shared and re-shared, tweeted and retweeted until it goes as viral as the video above.  Rather than seeing the internet as a way to write more and more nonsense, we must see it as a place to spread more and more holiness, kindness and love.

Yet if we do NOT speak, what does that say about us?  As Jews we are commanded not to stand idly by. We are supposed to warn/stop/prevent evil or bad behavior by our friends and compatriots. Yet, to give effective warnings and criticisms, we must know the individual and care for them.

Is this video over the top?  Of course it is.  Does it reflect what I hope for my daughter's Bat Mitzvah?  No, it does not.  I would much rather see a video of this young man's charitable works, how he volunteers his free time, how he uses his (clearly) tremendous financial resources to do good, and finally, how he studies and lives Torah.

At the end of the day though, he is a kid and none of this happened entirely through his own will or resources.  His parents participated and funded it.  Most importantly, they felt that his Jewish identity was important enough to celebrate his becoming a Bar Mitzvah.  While it may be over the top, he and his family are clearly members of a Jewish community and supporters of a congregation (see their name on the wall in the second video).  That in itself is a great mitzvah.

How do you celebrate your Jewish identity?
Do you make a viral video?
Do you speak kindly or rudely to the efforts of others?  

As we approach Rosh Hashanah, let us consider not only how we speak, but to whom we speak, where we speak and what the next person will say.  The Chafetz Chaim, the master teacher on the laws of speech tells us we should not even speak positively about someone in the presence of that person's enemy, since we will be facilitating lashon hara!  (Ie no "Bush is the best president ever" at the DNC convention or "Obama is awesome" at a Tea Party event.)